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Tips on First-Year Housing and Roommate Requests

On Sunday, thousands of seniors across the country celebrated National College Decision Day. We were thrilled to see all of the smiles and proud college t-shirts on our social media feeds! But even though the big decisions are finalized, there are still a few more choices incoming freshmen have to make. Over the next few weeks, students will need to think about one of the most important questions: where will I live next year and with whom? To help answer these questions, we’re sharing some important tips and reminders for housing forms and roommate requests.

1) Meet your deadlines

Be sure to check your email and school portal consistently, so you don’t miss important deadlines for housing applications, roommate requests, etc. Some schools are first come, first serve, while others don’t guarantee on-campus housing if you turn in your application late. You can find information regarding deadlines and housing policies on the school’s website.

That said, we recommend submitting housing materials as early as possible no matter the deadline. Situations can occur where housing fills prematurely even when it is not supposed to first come, first serve. In those cases, students have been shut out despite adhering to published deadlines.

2) Research your options

As much as we encourage you to submit your materials early, we also want you to thoroughly research your housing possibilities. Of course, every school is different when it comes to policies and residential offerings, so familiarize yourself with available options. If you’re allowed to rank residence hall choices, use the school website to take a close look at different buildings and dorm style options. Our expert tip: take a virtual campus tour or download a map to help you get a sense of geography as well. A conveniently located dorm may be the deciding factor in your rankings.

You’ll also want to check out any speciality housing options that your school offers. As we covered in a previous blog post, there is a rising trend in living learning communities, themed housing, and other special interest group housing on college campuses. These spaces connect students with similar interests or lifestyles and provide meaningful opportunities for collaboration and fun outside the classroom and your dorm room. So if you’re looking to live with others who are just as passionate about foreign languages, the environment, community service, and more, specialty housing may be the right fit for you.

While most schools require first-year students to live on campus, there are some colleges and universities that allow freshmen to opt out of dorm living. (This was a particularly popular option during the height of the pandemic when social distancing didn’t make communal living so appealing.) We know that moving into your very own apartment can be exciting, but don’t let the allure of independent living detract you from fully exploring on-campus options. Taking part in residential life during your first year of college is a great way to build friendships and find your place in the community. Plus, you might just find a cool alternative to the traditional two-person dorm room.

3) Be honest with yourself…and your roommate questionnaire

When it comes to selecting housing and roommates, you’ll need to take an honest look at yourself. What do you need to feel comfortable in your living environment and do well academically? Notice that we used the word need, not want. Sure, you may want your bathroom and a walk-in closet, but these features hopefully won’t make or break your residential life experience. 

Typically, schools will ask you to complete a questionnaire to match you with a compatible roommate. Now is the time to exercise some self awareness about your lifestyle and those bad habits of yours. Be really honest with yourself and the residential life office when answering these questions. Don’t base your answers on giving off the best impression or maybe even letting parents fill out the form for you. If you’re not a neat freak, that’s okay. It’s better to acknowledge your cluttered tendencies now than to be paired with someone who will feel anxiety just looking at your desk. Here are the general areas you’ll need to consider as you fill out your questionnaire: 

  • Neatness, cleanliness, and organization: these questions allow you to assess your tidiness level and your tolerance when it comes to dirty laundry and piles on the floor

  • Environment: give insights into your sleep patterns, study habits, quiet time, and more

  • Lifestyle choices and interests: share information about everything from religion to sexual orientation to smoking, drinking, and extracurricular activities

4) Friends don’t always make the best roommates

As comforting as it might be to room with a friend, we encourage students to branch out. Just because you get along at school or on the soccer field doesn’t mean you’ll be a great match to live together in a small space. Roommates are based upon living style compatibility, and too much time with a close friend can be a recipe for dorm life disaster. This is also one of the rare opportunities in your life to live alongside people from such diverse backgrounds. Trust that the residential life office knows what they are doing and embrace the exciting possibilities for your roommate experience.

5) Insta-friends don’t always make the best roommates, either

With the rise in social media networks and apps, it’s easier than ever to make insta-friends with your soon-to-be-classmates. We love that students can connect through Facebook groups and Instagram, but be careful! Your new insta-friend might seem ‘awesome’ after a series of DMs, but you don’t really know them yet. Avoid jumping into a roommate situation based upon a few social media exchanges. 

There are also plenty of third-party apps, like Roomsurf and The Roomie, designed to help undergrads find compatible roommates. Some of these technologies use a series of questions and algorithms to match students, but it’s not an exact science. Just like any app or website, be cautious with your safety and communications, as well as getting too comfortable with someone you don’t know in real life.

6) Be your own advocate

If you have a documented disability, it’s critical to share this information, so you can work with the school to secure the living environment you need. Schools are legally required to provide reasonable accommodations, which may include anything from ADA accessible rooms to private bathrooms to service animals.